Problems in rl

This thread basically made to solve problems in rl.Everyone has a problem in real life and if we share I believe we can solve the problem somehow.

Well my problem is that my age is 17 and I'm not able to concentrate on studies because of my addiction to Internet any remedies the please share thank you in advance.

Logging off of Torn would be a good start.

Heroin solves everything

Men almost all teenagers addicted to something...how to overcome it starts from inside u
Set limits that if u cross u get punished by urself.
Set strict punishments (like for u could be no Internet for 2-3days) something like that

Such a broad addiction, anyway, maybe a few failed tests and or exams will give you the wake up call you need.

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that's awesome.

Have you ever been tested for ADHD?

It does. It really does.

What is adhd??

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Attention_deficit_hyperactivity_disorder

A lot of people combine ADHD with being hyperactive, but thats not accurate. Not everyone with ADHD are hyperactive.

When you're watching porn just skip to the good parts, it saves me a lot of time. Boom problem solved, you are welcome.

I was not tested for ADHD And im not hyperactive but I have some signs of ADHD

I am addicted to being addicted :o

Internet addictions are often synonymous to avoidance problems; you generally tend to get addicted to anything that diverts your attention from the issues that weigh in your life. It is a reactive lifestyle and it is very hard to break it's cycle, even though you know that it is affecting you negatively.

But it is not impossible: emotional intelligence goes a long way to make you realise why you do what you do and why you feel the way you feel. The first step to solving or correcting a problem is identifying it. Once you put a name to your demon; you have the means to battle it. And battle is a proper term because it is not easy nor fast, you basically need to rehabilitate or rewire your brain from reacting a certain way; you need to create new neurons, make new connections and associations. Everything you do or don't do reinforces itself in your brain.

The first step is the hardest: admitting to yourself that what you're doing or the way that you're living is impacting you or your surrounding in a way that doesn't make you happy. The second step is wanting change.

I think that you already took the first and second steps by asking for advice/tools; and for that I congratulate you.

There will always be those that will try to ridicule your attempts at rebuilding yourself into the person you want to be. It is hard to always ignore them, but try to remember that most people don't like it when someone is trying to empower themselves; it leaves those that laugh at you behind while you progress. Years later, those people will still be in the same spot they are while you've faced some of your problems and gained the confidence and motivation to keep facing more of them as they appear throughout your life.

Its why often people that made fun of you in highschool end up being more miserable when you see them several years later. You moved on and expanded your mind while they stayed in their comfort zone.

@Navin

I think you have an 'Addictive Personality"



Hope this helps in anyway...


Thanks,
V.

The Internet in China is shit though.

But the heroin is primo

It is. It really is.