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A slap on the wrist

Started by Surreptitious [3819111] on in Graveyard.

276 replies · 2.07k views · thread synced · 3 days ago · View on torn.com

Posts archived: 277 / 277 posts (100%) · the total is Torn's reply count + the opening post at the last fetch

Landgull [3703758]

I don't know why she would be happy at all about my sentiment. I would guess that she would be even more furious if it was graved. Probably would say I was trying to suppress her crusade.

Glazeddonut93 [3498935]

As a lady I’ve dealt with this several times on here. After trying to report it twice they didn’t do shit. So I gave up. Was really contemplating quitting the game cause of it at some point. 

Makkhoi [3652991]

So you made your thread, got reasonable replies from staff explaining how it is and you just ignored their replies and continues on your damn crusade?

 

No one is upset about you speaking up, they are just sick about the way you go on about this.

 

You said in Fedded Archives that Greta Thunberg is your big idol. Do you know that in reality she is harming whatever cause she is into at any given time and everyone is sick of her? 

 

You will end up getting fedded which is a damn shame, but for me it is time to find that ignore button.

 

 

Jane_Eyre [3952891]

This topic has generated way too much discussion than necessary.

 

If everyone on the forum agrees that sexual violence threats are terrible and are not a joke, then I really don't understand why is it a problem to introduce a ban instead of a warning for any threats of sexual violence.

It doesn't matter who meant what and how offended / not offended the person on the receiving end was. 

And I don't think the gaming community will lose anything when a person who believes sexual violence is funny and not a big deal stops playing this game.

 

Want to have a laugh - then make fun of other things. 

Want to appear all tough in the online game - then present yourself in a different manner. Even when talking crap - you can be witty, not pathetic. 

Qara [2787076]

Can someone buy her a clue?  I just can't put in anymore energy to this actual issue and especially since it is blatantly clear she has not bothered to keep up.

Leerie [3387354]

That was before.  Not the one post im talking about.  Plus I got an edit in there now.   It was to keep the fed forum on topic.  Cleared up by bogie.

Benjisaur [1486947]

Living in a world that is willing to be that unforgiving is far worse than any perceived insult, or mild threat, regardless of whether or not we all agree its out of line.

 

I don't disagree with the sentiment or opinion of what is out of line. I just disagree with your call for totalitarian approaches in response.

 

If you take a heavy handed approach to everything, then you end up breaking what you wanted to preserve in the first place.

 

Insert logical extreme example here you'll disagree with.

BurningWinters [1620580]

Well this is not simply a case of threats of sexual assault but also misogyny, since dudes generally don't go around threatening to sexually assault other dudes. 

 

Granted, girls in torn are guys in real life so shit now starts to get really confusing. 

 

Were they seriously considering to sexual assault another dude playing as a female character on a textbased browserbased 10000 years old MMORPG or simply being obnoxious? Would they have done the same if the dude was playing a ♂ character instead?

Gardrew [2429596]

"You cannot threaten to sexually assault someone through the internet without it being taken seriously by the person receiving the threat"

 

Nah I'm pretty sure you can. It's just the internet, try not caring and see if it works.

If somebody on a random internet game forum tells me they will punch me in the face, should I start sleeping with a helmet for my own safety?

neth [3564828] Reporter

Edit: Removed as I thought it through more; deathwish is forum banned and thus can't reply. Also they are clearly going through it rn so I don't want to kick someone while they are down.

Solaris [459981]

I think the answer to your question is that it depends on the context. Some people absolutely would try to doxx you, stalk you, and hurt you IRL. The vast majority of the time, the answer is probably an obvious "no", but with as many players and for as long as Torn has existed I would bet IRL money that at least one person in Torn history has done some real IRL aggression against another player.