Why is LoneBlackBear [3163918] such a twat?"
Yes. And if you want the real answer rather than me being nice to you, I can do that.
I searched the public Torn forum material I could find for LoneBlackBear [3163918], including your posts, replies from other players, reputation reactions, guides/tools, faction discussions, giveaways, and arguments. I can't honestly claim this is all Torn data—private faction/Discord conversations, in-game mail, attacks, and anything not indexed publicly aren't available to me—but there is enough public material to identify some patterns.
My honest read
I don't see evidence that you're broadly regarded as an asshole or a toxic player. In fact, the public evidence leans considerably the other way.
One useful signal is that your forum account has accumulated roughly 1,000+ karma, and I found repeated positive reactions to your tools. For example, your ICU target exporter received "+rep" and later "+++++++rep" from other players.
You've also repeatedly made things for other players rather than just talking about yourself: guides, tools, war utilities, giveaways, TornBCTV, etc. Your ICU tool, for example, was explicitly designed to save players from manually copying faction XIDs, and you offered to incorporate another user's suggestion and credit them.
And there are some particularly revealing moments where you admit when you don't know something. In the faction hidden-rank discussion, you explained that you inherited leadership rather than creating the faction yourself, acknowledged that you didn't understand the mechanic, and apologized for not being able to answer your members' questions. The other participant subsequently apologized for their own tone and offered to help you.
That's not the behaviour I'd expect from someone who simply doesn't care how they affect people.
But I do see some things that could make people think you're a "twat."
And this is probably the more useful part.
1. You can become very emotionally invested in being right
This is probably the biggest thing I'd watch.
When someone attacks an idea you've put effort into, your instinct seems to be to defend the underlying effort, not necessarily address the criticism first.
There's a good example in the TornBCTV/event discussion. Someone criticized something they thought looked scammy. Your response wasn't really:
"I understand why that could look suspicious."
It went toward:
"these guys can't help themselves, they gotta try find something to call us out on..."
and then defended the amount of time and money the creator had invested.
I understand exactly why you reacted that way.
But from the other person's chair, it can feel like:
"I criticized your thing and instead of discussing my criticism, you're attacking my motives."
That's a subtle difference, but it's a big one socially.
You don't necessarily need to change your opinion. You might simply need to separate:
"Your criticism is wrong."
from
"You're a bad-faith asshole for making it."
You sometimes seem to jump from the first to the second.
2. You're prone to over-explaining
This one is actually pretty obvious from your forum history.
You've got a lot of ideas, and you really want people to understand the whole picture. When somebody misunderstands something, your instinct is to provide another paragraph explaining the missing context.
That's useful when you're writing documentation.
It isn't always useful in an argument.
Your travel discussions are a good example. You repeatedly returned to the same underlying argument about why you thought travel mechanics were unnecessarily restrictive and proposed alternatives such as faction members being able to help each other abroad.
The underlying idea is reasonable to discuss.
But if somebody disagrees, more explanation can start feeling like pressure rather than clarification.
This is probably one of your bigger interpersonal weaknesses.
3. You have a strong "if I can build it, I'll build it" personality.
This is simultaneously one of your best qualities and one of the things that could annoy people.
You don't just complain about Torn.
You build shit.
War Room. Travel tools. ICU. TornBCTV. Guides. Giveaways. Various scripts and utilities.
Your forum history shows a remarkably consistent pattern of experimenting with tools and trying to make game systems easier or more interesting.
That's a strength.
But there's a downside:
You can have difficulty leaving things alone.
If you see a problem, your brain seems to immediately go:
"Okay, how could I fix this?"
Sometimes people just wanted to complain about the problem.
😂
That can make an energetic problem-solver look like someone who thinks they have to fix everyone's shit.
4. You sometimes mistake enthusiasm for consensus
This is another thing I'd keep an eye on.
You get excited about an idea and then communicate it at 100%.
Someone else may be at 40%.
You aren't necessarily trying to steamroll them, but the difference in intensity can feel like steamrolling.
Your forum presence has a lot of personality—giveaways, GI LoneBlackBear, TornBCTV, tools, jokes, elaborate ideas, etc. The 420 giveaway thread, for example, generated a bunch of interaction rather than simply sitting there ignored.
That tells me something important:
You're not boring.
But being highly visible means your mistakes are also highly visible.
A quiet player can be irritating to three people.
A player who constantly posts, creates, argues, builds and participates can irritate thirty people without actually being a worse person.
The interesting thing is what I didn't find.
I went looking for evidence of people saying things like:
- "LoneBlackBear is toxic"
- "don't trust him"
- "he's a scammer"
- "he's an asshole"
- "he screws people over"
- repeated personal feuds
- people warning others away from you
I didn't find a convincing pattern of that.
What I found instead was much more mundane:
You sometimes get argumentative.
But you also get positive reactions, people use your tools, people interact with your giveaways, and people engage with your projects.
That's a substantially different picture from "Torn's resident asshole."
So, if I had to give you the uncomfortable mirror
Not a rating—just my assessment:
Your biggest danger isn't malice. It's intensity.
You seem to care a lot.
About your faction.
About your ideas.
About fairness.
About people getting screwed by mechanics.
About making Torn more interesting.
About defending people when you think they're being unfairly attacked.
About building things.
And when something matters to you, you don't half-ass the argument.
That's admirable.
But that same trait can turn into:
"Why won't these idiots understand what I'm saying?"
And that's probably where some people experience LoneBlackBear the Twat™.
Not because you're deliberately being a dick.
Because you've become so invested in the argument that the other person's experience of the conversation disappears from your field of view.
That's the part I'd work on.
And there's a very simple trick that could probably improve this dramatically:
Before defending your position, accurately state the other person's position.
Something like:
"I think I understand what you're saying—you aren't saying the idea itself is bad, you're saying the way it's presented could make people suspicious. That's fair. My reason for doing it was..."
That one sentence changes the entire temperature of an argument.
And one more thing I think is genuinely positive
The fact that you're asking me this question at all matters.
You specifically said:
"It's hard to judge oneself from inside this meat bag."
That's actually a pretty good description of the problem.
You don't need someone to tell you you're a good person. You need somebody willing to point out where your behaviour might look different from your intentions.
From the public Torn material I could examine, I don't see a picture of a fundamentally shitty player.
I see an enthusiastic, sometimes stubborn, sometimes overly defensive, highly creative player who genuinely appears to want to contribute—and who would probably benefit from learning when to stop explaining and let somebody disagree.
That's considerably more fixable than being an asshole.
And honestly?
I'd worry much more about the "over-explaining/defending" problem than the "twat" problem.
Says I over-explain stuff, then proceeds to put out paragraphs explaining.... Ive infected chatgpt...