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Eli5: The Tolerance Paradox

If you and your friends agree that you will always, always be nice to each other, no matter what you do, then everybody gets along at first.

Then Billy starts being really mean at sleepovers. He takes toys, says really mean things, pushes people off the couch when you watch movies and does other mean things.

Billy keeps doing this because you are all being super nice to him and you keep inviting him to sleepovers.

You have to tell Billy to stop or he doesn't get invited to more sleepovers, because he makes it really bad for everybody else.

If you keep being nice to Billy and inviting him and not telling him to stop, he's only going to keep making sleepovers really bad.

Sometimes you have to tell mean people that they're not allowed to be your friend, even if you really, really want to be nice to every one.


Original quote: 

Unlimited tolerance must lead to the disappearance of tolerance. If we extend unlimited tolerance even to those who are intolerant, if we are not prepared to defend a tolerant society against the onslaught of the intolerant, then the tolerant will be destroyed, and tolerance with them. In this formulation, I do not imply, for instance, that we should always suppress the utterance of intolerant philosophies; as long as we can counter them by rational argument and keep them in check by public opinion, suppression would certainly be most unwise. But we should claim the right to suppress them if necessary even by force; for it may easily turn out that they are not prepared to meet us on the level of rational argument, but begin by denouncing all argument; they may forbid their followers to listen to rational argument, because it is deceptive, and teach them to answer arguments by the use of their fists or pistols. We should therefore claim, in the name of tolerance, the right not to tolerate the intolerant.

Karl Popper – The Open Society and Its Enemies

Apparently Torn Staff is okay with blatant right wing talking points,

Report reason:

Rioting, looting and burning property is a common far-right/bigot take to discredit movement's like Black Lives Matter, and "woke shite" is ALSO far right speak for anything tolerant

Created on 2026-07-31 19:36:56 by NaoYorihime [4361372]

Upon investigation, the reported player has not been found to be breaking rules at this time. No action will be taken.

You are encouraged to report again should you feel someone is breaking the rules.

Thank you very much, your report is appreciated. 

Replied to on 2026-07-31 19:38:16 by Torn City Staff

Keep this in mind if you ever want something to be done, you gotta do it yourself.


That means, if yall need bounty merits, help each other place and claim them. Toodles!

Full offense if i got autofedded over someone elses screwup id be keeping every red cent as a repayment to risking my account unneccessarily. Sorry not sorry

even if any of what you said is true...the correct answer is the Ignore List, not to attack entire factions cause hes mad. The old "doth protest too much" rule applies here, if it does for me it definitely does for him

oh nice a autofed system. Can't see how that cant be abused AT ALL by people who wanna harass someone. Just send em a metric load of cash, boom now they cant play

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this is a absolutely terrible idea. Could you imagine being a baby diamond facing a full 75 roster diamond? I would know what a terrible idea is, i had a terrible idea so bad i decided it should be graved instead!

it sounds like you should be filing reports, but considering staff/bogie's track record with my reports even unrelated to this id say a mutual ignore would make your life easier

nope. Just been on twitter way too long in my life and ive seen how awful people get, including but not limited to the undertale fandom putting needles in cookies over a ship

Correction: I made a point other people WOULD because of the source material being lolicon shamekink bait. I never said they were a lolicon or predator directly. i am happy to provide mobile screenshots of the mail, and the joke i made about the intelligence level of someone who uses such a signature/

That's a fantastic idea, actually. Thank you for being helpful 

Consider that i'm proposing a change to that, with a a carveout to not break the game then. this IS the suggestions forum after all

factually incorrect. Bounties still work even with a mutual ignorelist in place. Source: I blocked a simp that was clearly not a adult, and said simp immediately went to bounties

just trashing this idea-contemplating taking some advice here anyway

bro really made a alt to say the truth instead of saying it on main, weird thought process but ok

im relatively new compared to most and even ive recognized a lot of whats being claimed in the OP, sadly. It is what it is, and i hope OP finds a new game to play

EDIT: Hi Shooby, mind respecting your own ignorelist rather than negrating my posts? Appreciated

Three months or less. And that's being generous

EDIT: Hi Shooby, mind respecting your own ignorelist rather than negrating my posts? Appreciated

I’ve reported clear cut social rule violations and had it waved as not a violation so I’m inclined to agree with this

Ah so it’s truly just how torn is then. Also explains why my faction mates thought the whole shitshow was funny

Here before the graving

even if any of what you said is true...the correct answer is the Ignore List, not to attack entire factions cause hes mad. The old "doth protest too much" rule applies here, if it does for me it definitely does for him

Fine, if thats how you feel i may as well go all in and Share the Origin (clicky)

I didn’t insinuate shit I simply told you what others would think, today I was just trolling you but like I said,clearly you care if you’re spending E on me

Your actions speak infinitely louder than your words, dude but ok

Actions taken for something "nobody gives a fuck about"

3 bounties
Attacked entire faction
Loudly crying how he isnt a bad person
Refusing to change when confronted

Sure seems like Shooby here gives a lot of fucks.

The average intelligence level of the loli goddess requiem signature possessor. And don’t act like you didn’t know the origins I sent you mail over this. So what’s that say about you bucks.

in any case best of luck to everyone involved in this Nuke Trilogy and consider a new faction cause wew three vault mishaps is wild