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Sidgar [1828507]
Don't worry. Everything will be fine.
Seriously.
Time will heal your wounded heart. Even if you think it's broken beyond repair.
JACKO [2622554]
Don't get back with her, plenty more women out there... Get ya leg over someone else and you'll forget she ever existed within a few weeks

Goodluck
TornFalcon [2042205]
If you're under 25, move on you've got plenty of time and you'll be surprised what's out there even if it feels like there's only one.
If you're over 25, move on or be honest. "any chance of saving this?" if hesitant or no, move on it's not worth your emotional downfall.

Take the good as things you want in the future and take the bad as lessons to avoid. good luck.
awsmn_ [2586798]
Thank you all for showing this support. Yes, I'm trying to move on now. Do go through withdrawals every now and then but i'll improve.

Thank you to all of you
The_Judge_ [2555858]
I recently broke up with my bf so I can relate. He didn't say he doesn't love me, only that he's going through a tough time during quarantine. But you could kind of see that I liked him way more than he liked me. We weren't ldr, but we couldn't see each other at all because of restrictive measures.

Anyway, please don't settle for less. There's better things waiting for you. I honestly would never believe someone misses me when they said they don't love me. It's okay to grieve sometimes , but remember pain is what makes us human, and making ourselves vulnerable to let someone in is the most beautiful thing in the world. So make sure you don't let people take advantage of that. The right person will realise what is at stake and will fight for you. Love isn't that burning feeling that exists the first 3-6 months. Love is making the choice to stay even when things are rough.

Please don't follow other people's advice to find a replacement. If you keep looking you'll never find what you need. Genuine feelings will catch you off guard. From a person you would never guess or think twice about. Learn to be okay by yourself before you move on.

And last, remember that life isn't always happiness and rainbows. There will be tough times, otherwise it would all be a fairytale, something not real.
awsmn_ [2586798]
I totally agree with you. And what I was thinking today is that,
I have only one life and it's not right to waste time on someone who wouldn't gimme a second of their time.

So, now on I'll be working to be successful and be happy.


Maybe one day they'll return or maybe they won't. Even if they don't, someone else will. But, if I keep stuck at this place, neither they'll come back nor anyone else.

So, I'll just keep moving on and work for my happiness and will definitely find someone worth spending my time on oneday!

Cheers!
Lonwolf4 [2611166]
Its hard when you lose someone you developed a relationship with, seems like a waste (like putting too much energy into trying to find items in the torn city dump lol) But its a bigger waste to spend more time dewelling on it when you could be using that time to develope a new relationship or yourself.
(Tough love i know hate me if you like).

Btw a man has value till hes at least 49 (some comment spoke otherwise but thats bull).