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A warning to players in Torn about WruceBayne. Another crash out by -Thor-?

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WruceBayne [3116697] ×2

-Thor- [165392]

Good morning,

 

Usually I'm on the receiving end of having a general discussion post made about me... never thought I'd see the day where I'm posting one about someone else. I'd like to share with the members of Torn the demeanor of a certain player here, the events that unfolded, and a request to the staff about the rules in Torn.

 

WruceBayne is the character I'd like to share with you. I want to make it clear that this is not a reflection of HT. These are the actions of one player. HT remains the faction I call home and will be returning for their 100K this Halloween.

 

A little over a month ago while I was in HT - an individual placed a stricken merc contract on me with specific rules. I requested a permanent wall for HT and Mike always made sure one was available and advised individuals not to join as it's a friendly wall. As I was getting out of the hospital, she joined my spot - I quickly removed and mugged them for a nominal amount to remove them from the wall.

23:40:12 - 25/06/26 You used 25 energy attacking WruceBayne and mugged them for $259,532 [view]

 

That is what started started everything.
They quickly messaged me asking why I mugged them and went into the faction chat insinuating that I was sexist and that my behavior was that of "typical male behavior."
I warned this user of that kind of communications and showed them the last character who attempted this behavior - and they ignored the very first warning. I promised them they will be added to the perma-hosp list for Halloween and returned the money.

23:50:23 - 25/06/26 You added WruceBayne to your targets list with the description : Halloween 2026

23:55:10 - 25/06/26 You sent $259,532 to WruceBayne with the message: Here's your mug money buddy, lol

 

HT was in the middle of a training break and I left trying to find possibly a real warring faction - or to just try something new. 

 

12:02:54 - 21/07/26 The ranked war between Monarch Chrysalis and |HT| will begin in 50 hours on Thu 14:00:00 - 23/07/26 

My favorite holiday is Christmas and boy... it truly is Christmas in July!

 

A termed war was planned between the two factions, but I advised both leaderships that.. "She will be permanently hosp'd the entire time of the war," that way when she complains to either HT or MC - everyone will have already been advised so there wouldn't be any surprises.

14:00:18 - 23/07/26 The ranked war between Monarch Chrysalis and |HT| has begun 

The war began and while I did not immediately begin hospitalizing her (was in the middle of a move to Florida and was miserable), but after getting settled... white screen simulator ensued for WruceBayne.

 

After the first few hospitalizations - Wruce thought she'd directly message me.. 

In order not to spam the entire page with the screenshots of all communications between us, I will attach them as links. You can view them if you wish.

 

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I blocked the individual at this point as there didn't seem to be any point in allowing the character to message me. Immediately they grabbed my real life photos from my profile and posted them as their own. (I have removed the photos and while they held sentimental value to me, I do not want this to be repeated).

Profile Picture

 

I messaged them on Discord to advise on the behavior as it's insane to me that someone would do this. In order to avoid any negative behavior I will blur their name and pictures out.

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Why did I take this so seriously?

I've played this game for way too long. Over that time, I've played many different personas... even the Russian mugging Thor for a while was quite enjoyable. And we all have a persona we can choose to play as, one of the great joys of this game... you can play it however you want.

However, when we bring real life into the game, unless you're willing to deal with the possible consequences of doing so, it's best left out.

If your persona is that of playing as a victim, with a deck full of cards that insinuate anyone and everyone is sexist - we're going to have a conflict.

 

As an American player, allegations of sexism (outside the game) are nigh impossible to protect yourself against especially in corporate America. Even if it doesn't have merit, it will permanently affect you. And while I completely understand playing a persona in the game, there's a clear line that should not be crossed. I do believe that rules of Torn should include sexism insinuations. 

 

 

TL;DR : User plays victim, insinuates sexist remarks, stole RL photos and double downed on their behavior multiple times.

 

Mentions: WruceBayne [3116697]

Dsla [2807954]

WruceBayne claims -Thor-  posted photos to -thor-'s profile of google images (they are his irl photos) and posted them on Torn. WruceBayne then saved them as his own photos and "Didn't know that was him". Does anyone actually believe this? I'm surprised Wruce didn't get a temp ban or any type of punishment for that matter.

 

WinterValor [3945658]

I definitely do not support her actions, especially using your IRL images as her profile picture, but why in the hell did you mug her to remove her from the wall? Anybody would get mad if they got mugged cause they joined a friendly wall. You did not know the mug would be a nominal amount, it could have been in the millions as well. Would you then return the money?

glitch__ [3624212]

Why can't people understand the basic concept that everyone is playing a character here and that while anything goes within that character,  extending things to IRL is crossing a line?

Shooby [2510470]

it's easy to point a finger when only one side of story is exposed. 

 

I don't agree with what some shit stain does to them but you're not getting the whole picture of this "character".

MrTORn [2881250]

so OP was bullying someone, they responded with words and grabbed his public profile picture on torn and reposted it on torn and staff should get involved? wtf

Pinguux [2331130]

Using someone's irl photos as your own is already wierd but I do tell people to be careful about posting such things onto Torn for that reason..

 

Also 🍿🍿🍿 

 

WruceBayne [3116697]

All,

I want to address this entire situation firsthand, as well as previous situations where I've wronged people. It seems the way I have presented myself, played the game, and some of the things I've said to people were basely just wrong, and in some cases, outright disturbed. I'm not going to make excuses for my behavior.

In the case of thor, I've had a series of escalations to events that were just actions in a video game. There were much better ways I could have handled it. The sexist comments were wrong and wildly inappropriate. I made no efforts to try and be diplomatic with him in any way. Even once he attacked me during the RW, I didn't try to reach out to him and establish a mutual understanding that would have been productive.

I've since issued an apology to thor directly on discord a few days ago, which I made mikk and madz aware of. As of right now, I am not in contact with him. I'd attempted to move on from this at this point, and want to be able to play torn in a way that is constructive to both the community and my faction.

But in closing, let me apologize for any insane actions I've perpuated against ANYONE. I've had a consistent pattern of behavior that has gone on too long, and eventually, I needed to be introspective and come to terms with it.

Mong [3401450]

If anything is posted in public it's always gonna be public unfortunately.  Lesson here is keep  public and private life separate. 

pdk [3626257]

You wasted my time a little bit by making me click 11 links. Next time adjust height of chat in settings and make it 1-2 screenshots

Lick_My_Muff [3927175]

These are just words. You need to show how sorry you are for... whatever you did... with meaningful actions. I was hurt the most by all of this. 

SwiftTitan [1032989]

When sometimes default reaction to an event that is a direct result of their actions, is to cry racism/sexism/targeted persecution...they're in the wrong 99% of the time. 

 

 

 

Surreptitious [3819111]

My experience with Wrucebayne

 

WruceBayne was trying to strike up a friendship with me. After knowing her for a bit, she became deranged. At first the signs were subtle, she would seek attention from me if I hadn't responded to her within five minutes and manipulate me if I told her to stop. Once, when I did not respond to her for 12 hours, she became very verbally aggressive and abusive towards me, going as far as to bounty me ingame. 

 

I tried being her friend because she seemed lonely and like she could use a friend. She decided that meant that she could spam me whenever. When I politely told her that she cannot have 24/7 access to me, she became defensive and said that I was just like everyone else who gave up on her. I told her that wasn’t true; I just wanted to set a boundary of not being there for her 24/7

 

She would constantly ask me weirdly sexual questions too, stuff I won't repeat here, and repeatedly tried to flirt with me. I don't think she liked it when I obliviously ignored her flirtation attempts. It was weird and inappropriate and frankly, made me really uncomfortable, but I excused it because it seemed like she needed someone to listen to her. I was sacrificing my own sanity by continuing to talk to her-- it was constantly draining me. 

 

I finally ended everything because she was complaining about -Thor- and refusing to accept responsibility for taking an IRL photo of him and using it as her profile photo ingame. Then she implied that she had a higher moral standing than I did because I've received a chat ban and she has not. It was all “well you’ve never told me anything you’ve done wrong,” which, I explained, was because I could not trust her with that information as the manner in which she was acting was completely deranged. I compared her to someone who abused me in the past because of the uncanny way she acted, which upset her even more. After that, I blocked her.

 

I will not be surprised if she starts using things that I told her against me. 

-9/10 R- 

 

For the curious, this has a bunch of screenshots proving an abusive pattern of behaviour.

 

EDIT- She had told me she had used a profile photo of his. I thought that it was an image that was either a gfx or an AI generated PFP. I did not realize that she had meant an IRL photo of him— if I’d known that, I’d have cut all ties sooner.

 

The way she is acting in this thread proves that she is still an abusive piece of shit.